Hey Kelvin,
In my opinion the 3.8 is the "sweeter" motor. And the 4.2 is really not all that much bigger. I also agree concerning the gearboxes.
You and you wife have a fine Christmas and holiday season. It was -13 F. at our house this morning. I'm not sure why I'm here...
Bill & Linda
Motorbill
From Lola to Land Rover, If it's British and has wheels, it's likely I've bloodied me knuckles thereupon